what if..!

What if..Is such a commonly asked question in everybody's life,what if i say her a hi,what if she says a no,what if i fail..so many what if's but the answer ahh i doubt any of us know,Even i am accustomed to a number of what if's in my life,searching  answer's for the question marks in my life sometimes clueless sometimes helpless ,As i pass by the inviting books displayed on the library shelf my eyes wonder around just to find a book that would have the solutions to all the problems in our life's...But Guess what whatever it is is inside us,nobody on this planet can understand you more than yourself not even your better have or girlfriend or your best friend,the answer's are inside you, you just have to pick up the right book from the right shelf of the heart...


Just as sharukh khan says in one oh his movies :"agar tumhein koi kitab achi lagti hain aur tumhara dil use padhne ka kare tho usse padho,Usi tarah agar tumhara dil kahein ki ek ladki hai jo tumhare liye bani hain tho jao aur jaake use keh do"...This may sound absolutely filmy but guys it works,at the end of the day atleast you will not be in the guilt that you had an opportunity and you did not make use of it


This life is to short to sit back and think about what,if and how ...so all you guys out there grab this opportunity to unclutter your mind,and create a life for yourself which is obove all this,where you know exactly what you want to do,and when confused you know where to call yes its none other than your own heart




good bye folks
 till we meet next time
:)

One wish..

In the darkness of the midnight,A big yell in the house the women is rushed to the hospital two hours later the nurse walks out saying congratulations "Its a baby girl"The father is elated and the first touch of his daughter brings tears in his eyes..as the little baby holds the hands of her dad tight while she is asleep her dad is up thinking,I will never leave her alone ill always be by her side come what may i will protect her from all the evil eyes ill never let her innocense fade,Both mum and dad look at the baby and then look at each other and their unspoken expressions say it all we will find her the best husband in this world.Just the thought of the daughter leaving their home brings tears to their eyes but mom says this is life she will have to go one day ....


The girl grows with every passing day shes discovering a new life,shes becoming more aware of herself,shes living dreams and seeing dreams.by the time shes a teenager shes already imagined what her future partner is going to be like and finally shes living that very moment that she had desired and wished all her life her Mr perfect is standing right in front of her eyes,her eyes her filled with tears of happiness when she sees her man standing at the aisle waiting for her life wouldn't have been better for her ..The holy verses start and shes tied in an unbreakable bond ..


Days and years pass shes still the same but something in her life changed,it was not money,fame,values but the  love and affection that she expected from her near and dear ones,she made cakes on her sons birthday,made sure that the food was cooked well in time before her husband came home, took care of everybody in the family without the slightest grin on her face and all this just because she loved her family, but somewhere her life took a backseat


The girl who was the apple of her fathers eyes,whose smiling face bought smile on everybodys face,whose wish was their command ..she left all that she left her family,her room,her friends,the pillow,the walls where she grew up,the garden that she spent her time drawing and all this just for You.


Every girl is special not because the leave their family and come to stay with you,but because they come on with a believe that there is just one man who will be by her side when she needs it the most ..Someone who will be her support system when she has failed someone who will take care of her when she is ill,someone who will feed her when she doesn't feel like,someone who shall hold her when her feet tremble..


If everybody realize this then no father would ever have numb eyes while departing his daughter






good byee..!

What we miss..!

Just as I was rushing down the staircase after my evening MBA class,feeling all tired and absolutely no stamina to go back home and do  anything My brain just kicked in to tell me dear you have a long night ahead leaving me all frustrated as I was sleepless for more than 2 nights and needed some much waited sleep.. Walking down the building and feeling so restless I got in the car and left..Somehow I really njoyed the journey back home as it was the time I got for myself and I could do some serious  analysis and all that thinking.about myself.!


This blog is a compilation of all the thoughts that ran through my mind that day,Just as I sat in the car and the wheel started turning I relaxed my back against the comforting leather seat ,put on the FM ( ohh I love to hear bollywood songs)..and the thoughts started flowing through my grey cells within a fraction of a second,I was angry,nervous,irritated and just did not know the reason why I was ,I probably thought I had a hectic day and this is just an outcome of that but guess I was wrong the more I tried to pacify myself the more I realised the reason for the discontent I reached home and in the middle of all the hectic schedule I just lied on my bed thinking why I was not at ease,what was the reason for all the irritation I started analyzing my life more deeply just to realize that Amids all the work,erratic working hours I somewhere neglected my family,myself and most importantly things I loved doing ..And when I realised that I needed to figure out how in a 12 hour work schedule will i be doing everything and still be contented...umm that was tough


I started my day at around 8 a.m i decided to change that just so that i can spend some quality time with my father,I woke up early just to spend  time with Baba,Me and mom have always cherished the times that we cook together,i tried making time to help her in cooking even if i was tired after coming back home..it had 2 advantages the cooking and the gossip sessions hahaha so much fun,,! Nani came to mumbai almost after ages and i had absolutely no time with her ,so i decided to spend my dinner time in her view where we would talk about everything under the sun from her college days to my best friends oohh i feel like a teenager with her :)..My day is not complete if i dondt have a little fight or taunt with my sissy haha I so love it but at the end of the day we exchange hugs and wish each other good night,I made sure made some time for myself and did just what i want to read,write,just sit back and munch marie biscuits..o simply just doing nothing....!


I realized i was feeling a lot more fresh,happy and energized and i was ready to even do double the work with more efficiency and energy.The only thing i want to convey from this blog is that there is no end to the amount of work we do each day,The innumerable people we meet,the laughs,the cries but all this is incomplete without the reason for our existence our family..So guys take sometime out tell your mom how much you lover her,talk to your dad about how you have been doing in life these little things dondt take much time but they make a huge impact on our lives 


Take good care of yourself Folks..
Till we meet next time
Bubyee..! :)