Soul Searching..

As I started writing this blog I was totally confused what I should write as I wanted to tell you guys so much being so long,I then thought of sharing a life changing lesson..This is a story that involves love,passion,commitment and the desire to fight every adversity in life

Last few days have been really difficult for my family,speacially my first cousin who was diagnosed with cancer at the fourth stage.I can never forget the night when her 2 daughters of mere 8 and 3 years where weeping in my arms asking when will mom be back,probably the longest night our family ever had,with every hand that was raised in namaz,with every passing fast of ramzan we had just one dua,to cure her.It is very rightly said “Allah Tallah will never give you a situation you cannot handle”

By the grace of Allah Tallah now 5 months down the treatment things our looking positive.But this incident has thought me some of the best lessons in life.The first time I went to meet her looking at my tensed face she sat me down near her and told me Sooner or later we all have to leave then why be scared of something that is inevitable. For a few seconds I was stunned how can a person at this stage of life be so courageous to make such a statement, but then I realised it’s not people but situations that make us strong, Sometimes we just have to find that strength inside us rather than asking people for it, Sometimes we have to become warriors of our own life’s if we want to fight the adversities of life..!

Like everybody we also wish and hope that we have somebody in our life who is compatible, well educated, attractive and all that, but there is more to just finding your Mr Perfect..Rather find for someone who will give a definite meaning to your life, who will burn her own hands to ensure you don’t sleep empty stomach, who will provide the solutions to all your problems without you even realising  it..!

She will and always be my source of inspiration whenever I find myself in a difficult situation not because of her illness that made her strong but the courage with which she has faced every adversity of life..!

Hope you find yours

Until we meet next time..!

Take care